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How to Create a Self-Care Routine That Actually Works.....

Updated: Apr 15

Let’s be real self-care isn’t just about bubble baths and face masks (though those can be amazing).


True self-care is about taking intentional steps to care for your physical, mental, and emotional well-being in a way that fits your life, not someone else’s highlight reel.


So how do you build a self-care routine that sticks? One that feels good and actually works? Here's your guide:


Tip #1 - Define What Self-Care Means to You


Everyone’s version of self-care looks different. For some, it’s waking up early to journal. For others, it’s saying “no” more often. Take a few moments to reflect on what makes you feel recharged, relaxed, and mentally clear.


Ask yourself:

  • What activities make me feel at peace?

  • What drains my energy, and how can I reduce those?

  • What have I been neglecting in my life?


Tip #2 - Start Small (Seriously, Small)


The quickest way to sabotage your routine? Trying to overhaul your whole life overnight. Instead, build slowly.

Try this:

  • Pick one small habit to start with (like stretching for 5 minutes in the morning).

  • Stick with it daily for a week or two.

  • Once it feels natural, add something else.


Tiny changes = sustainable routines.


Tip #3 - Mix & Match Your Self-Care Pillars


A good routine includes a balance of different self-care categories. Here are four to focus on:

  • Physical: movement, sleep, hydration, nourishing food

  • Emotional: journaling, therapy, creative outlets, alone time

  • Mental: reading, learning, limiting screen time, mindfulness

  • Spiritual (if applicable): meditation, prayer, time in nature, gratitude

You don’t need to do something from each category every day—but regularly checking in across them helps create balance.


Tip #4 - Make It Realistic (Not Pinterest-Perfect)


Let’s ditch the pressure to have an “aesthetic” routine. The best self-care is the kind that fits into your life.

Ask:

  • How much time do I actually have?

  • What do I enjoy and look forward to?

  • Can I simplify this even more?

If your routine feels like another chore, it’s time to scale it back.


Tip #5 - Create a Ritual, Not a Task List


The magic of self-care comes when it becomes a ritual—something grounding, even sacred—not just another thing on your to-do list.

Turn habits into rituals by:

  • Doing them at the same time each day

  • Setting a vibe (music, lighting, scents)

  • Being fully present (no multitasking)

It’s not just what you do, it’s how you do it.


Tip #6 - Review and Adjust Monthly


What works in one season of life might not work in the next. Give yourself permission to change it up.

Try this once a month:

  • Reflect: What felt good? What didn’t?

  • Reassess your needs

  • Swap out anything that’s no longer serving you

Self-care should evolve with you.


Tip #7 - Don’t Guilt Yourself on Off Days


Life happens. You’ll miss days. You’ll forget. That’s okay.

Self-care isn’t about being perfect—it’s about showing up for yourself with compassion. So if you fall off the wagon, skip the shame spiral. Just come back when you're ready.


Final Thoughts


The goal isn’t to create the perfect self-care routine it’s to create one that supports you. Be flexible, stay consistent where you can, and most of all, listen to yourself.

Self-care isn’t selfish it’s essential. And you deserve it.

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